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**Rita Gangwani** is a leading personality transformation mentor, executive coach, corporate trainer, pageant coach, author and motivational speaker, known for creating powerful transformation in confidence, communication, leadership presence and personal impact. A former Indian Armed Forces officer and founder of RIGAHAUS, Rita works extensively with corporates, senior professionals, leaders, management students and institutions, helping them strengthen executive presence, professional grooming, communication, body language, leadership skills, etiquette, personal branding and the ability to influence with confidence and credibility. She is also one of India’s most respected names in pageantry and the only pageant coach honoured by the World Book of Records for mentoring aspirants across an extraordinary range of categories, from Miss, Mrs and Mr to Plus Size, Transgender, Deaf, Blind, Wheelchair and Cancer Survivor pageants. An accomplished author, Rita wrote the bestselling ***Beauty Pageants Greenroom***, with a foreword by former Miss Universe **Sushmita Sen**. She is also the author of ***Young Leaves, Timeless Roots***, a book dedicated to bringing the richness of **Indian sanskaars, values and timeless wisdom** to a younger generation in a contemporary and relatable way. A pageant winner herself, Rita was crowned **Himachal Queen 1982** and **Mrs. Supreme Universe 2019**. Lovingly known as **“GURUCOOL”**, Rita combines military discipline, corporate insight, pageant expertise and deeply rooted Indian values to help people become **confident, polished, powerful and purpose-driven versions of themselves**. Her philosophy: “Be a stiletto in a room full of flats.”

Business Etiquettes For Professional Success

  1. Punctuality: You should aim to be on time for all meetings, appointments, and events. Arriving early can demonstrate their commitment and respect for others’ time.
  2. Dressing appropriately: Dress professionally and appropriately for the workplace. This may mean wearing a suit or dress, avoiding revealing or overly casual clothing, and being well-groomed.
  3.  Communication: Communicate clearly and professionally, whether in person, over the phone, or via email. This includes using proper grammar and avoiding slang or overly casual language.
  4.  Table manners: If you attend business lunches or dinners, it is crucial for you to understand proper table manners. This includes using utensils correctly, waiting to begin eating until everyone has been served, and avoiding loud or disruptive behavior.
  5. Social media etiquette: Your online presence can also affect your professional reputation. Encourage yourself to be mindful of what you post on social media, avoid oversharing personal information, and use proper grammar and spelling.

Overall, good business etiquette can help you establish a positive reputation and build strong relationships in your professional lives. By teaching yourself these skills, you can help yourself achieve greater success and confidence in your career.

Bullying At Work

The definition of Bullying is physical or verbal aggression that is repeated over a period and, in contrast to meanness, involves an imbalance of power.Jealousy of others receiving praise, promotions or any other recognition someone may get can often trigger bullying behavior in those who feel themselves to have been overlooked. Bullying is a one-sided action and very different to any other kind of workplace conflict between two people. If you are doing nothing wrong, and the negative, misery-inducing behavior continues, it is clear to see that the problem does not lie with you but with others. Often bullying tactics are used to exert existing power or to gain power that the bully feels like they are lacking. As in most cases of bullying, the blame lies with the person doing the bullying and not the victim.

A few examples of bullying include:

  • Targeted practical jokes
  • Being purposely misled about work duties, like incorrect deadlines or unclear directions
  • Continued denial of requests for time off without an appropriate or valid reason
  • Threats, humiliation, and other verbal abuse
  • Excessive performance monitoring
  • Overly harsh or unjust criticism

There could be a huge variety of reasons that someone feels the need to bully:

  • Maybe they were bullied as a child
  • Maybe they have come from an environment where aggression is common
  • Maybe they have come from another role where rudeness is typical
  • Maybe they are taking out frustrations from other parts of their life at work

How can bullying affect the workplace?
Bullying affects the overall “health” of an organization. An “unhealthy” workplace can have many effects. In general, these effects include:

  • Increased absenteeism.
  • Increased turnover.
  • Increased stress.
  • Increased costs for employee assistance programs (EAPs), recruitment, etc.
  • Increased risk for incidents.
  • Decreased productivity and motivation.
  • Decreased morale.
  • Reduced corporate image and customer confidence.
  • Poor customer service.

Solution:

  • The first and most important thing to do is talk to a trusted colleague or to a friend outside of work,
  • Ensure other people know what is going on and get their advice
  • Talking to your bully directly about their actions and the way you are feeling may also be an option,
  • There’s a chance they could be unaware of the hurt they are causing.
  • If neither of these options works, talking to your manager or HR department is the next logical step.
  • Ensure you are keeping a note of all instances of bullying in order to explain the situation clearly and thoroughly to them.
  • Most importantly, it all your efforts go waste, it could be time to move on and accept that the environment is not the place for you.

 

Bullying is a serious issue in many workplaces. While many companies have a zero-tolerance policy, bullying can sometimes be hard to recognize or prove, making it difficult for managers to take action. Other companies may not have any policies about bullying.

Taking steps to prevent workplace bullying can benefit organizations and the health of their employees. If you’ve been bullied, know you can safely take steps to combat the bullying without confronting the perpetrator. Remember to take care of your health first.

5 Ways To Boost Your Mental Strength

  1. Cultivate a growth mindset: A growth mindset involves believing that your abilities can be developed through hard work and dedication. Embrace challenges and view them as opportunities to learn and grow.
  2. Develop Strong Social Connections: Strong social connections are important for mental health. Having a support system of friends and family can help you cope with stress and reduce feelings of loneliness and isolation.
  3. Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness involves being present at the moment, without judgment, and with acceptance. By practicing mindfulness regularly, you can improve your ability to manage stress, regulate emotions, and increase your mental clarity.
  4. Practice gratitude: Practicing gratitude involves recognizing and appreciating the good things in your life. By focusing on the positive aspects of your life, you can improve your mental resilience and overall well-being.
  5. Exercise regularly: Exercise is not only good for your physical health but also for your mental health. Regular exercise can help reduce stress, improve mood, and increase mental resilience.